This website is organized into several themes:

• The identity of the problem

  • Identity
  • Internal vs External Pressures
  • Adaptation - practical utility
    • Territorial
    • Defensive mechanism
    • Problem storing
  • Cycles
  • Addiction vs Compulsion
  • Energy allocation
  • Mental/event unballance
  • Comorbidities



• Temporal-spatial relationship

  • Time stopper
  • Diversified possibility diffuser
  • Folie à deux (shared fantasy)
    • Secrecy
    • Stability
    • Members imprisionmnet
  • Layers of the past with cyclical inputs
  • Memory
  • Black and white spatial division/action orientation



• Feelings/personality [de]construction

  • Diagnosis
  • Shame
  • Insecurity
  • Disorientation
  • Dopamine "joneses"
  • Sadness
  • Anxiety
  • Inferiority/superiority complex
  • Lack of self-esteem/ self-flagelation/self-trashing
  • Personification



• The outside perspective

• The household aggregate perspective

• Children's perspective

• Effects on life
• Effects on personality
• Effects on consciousness
• Effects on lability
• Effects on the present
• Effets on the future
• Effects on socialization
• Effects on worldview
• Effects on hierarchy of values
• Effects on intimacy

• The relationship dynamic/circumstantial conundrums




• Solutions

  • Solutions for Children of Hoarders

  • 1) Human nature
  • 1.1) Philosophy - categories
  • 2) Behavior conditioning - positive reinforcement
  • 2.1) Black Box traps
  • 2.2) Space conquering
  • 2.3) Boundary enforcement
  • 2.4) Viral-contamination mental ballance
  • 3) Easter eggs
  • 4) Emotional frequencies - resonance
  • 4.1) Codependency - independence
  • 4.2) Learning to trust
  • 4.3) Faith in your story

  • Solutions for Hoarders

  • The Body and Mind
  • The Body
  • The Mind
  • The Hoard

  • Solutions for both




• Children's path

  • With the hoarder parent
    • Surrendering to God (something greater than yourself)
    • Happiness from within
    • Compassion/understanding/courage/resilience
    • Raging against the Dying of the light
  • Without the hoarder parent
  • Family
  • Career
  • Personality inadequacies
  • Cluster B
  • Repeating the cycle - Genetics/circumstantial tunnels
  • Drug/alcohol/sex/gambling/gaming abuse
  • Body awareness (philosophy of mind/ consciousness)
  • Aftermath
  • Connecting with others
  • Opening up to the world
  • Finding meaning